I heard a quote that goes something like this.

“I am not what I think I am.

I am not what you think I am.

I am what I believe you think I am.”

I thought our soceity demands mothers should cook.

Because of that, I was a miserable mother  believed who should cook but don’t cook.

I felt guilty not cooking for my family.

I felt anger becuase  i believed my family expect me to cook. In reality, no one expected me to cook except I.

I understand guilt is costly emotion.  I choose not to feel guilty about it.

I still don’t cook much, but when I do, I do it for love, not out of guilt.

Be you. Do you. For you.